Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Give, Take, Request and End


Give = Causing somebody or somethings to have or receive

Take
= Carry somebody or somethings or accompany somebody from one place to another

Request
= Act of asking for somethings in speech or writing, especially politely

End
= Final part of somethings; finish; conclusion

I check the above meanings from "Dictionary", because I really don't understand the above meanings SOMETIMEs....

When we GIVE somethings to people, people TAKE it, it not meant that the process is over; it will have REQUEST coming in and never END.

Before that, Give and Take is very simple for me, just like the explanations of the dictionary, and now
I have learn the new meanings form 'The Family".

The new meanings is; after give and take, request is coming, after request, it not end yet; and another request is coming.....

Is it meant by better is don't GIVE, so there will not have REQUEST???

I believe that God already set up that how much will you have in your whole life.... So, if you want to request somethings, you must give somethings out first;

Just like the picture display, if you would like to have the can drink, you have to take out the money from the ATM machine, to insert it into the machine then you will get the drink.


For me, life is so simple, why want to make it so difficult till END??

"Life is Short, please Appreciate what people GIVE you and what you Have now"


Friday, June 19, 2009

父亲,爸爸,Daddy, Father....


明天又是一年一度的<父亲节>, 我的父亲 -- 林新利。。
从小,他给我的感觉不大容易亲近, 他很少打骂我,不过我也很少主动去接近他, 妈妈常常对我说: ”其实爸爸很疼你“。 我听后也没多大的感觉,只是听了就算。

爸爸从不把“疼‘这个字挂在嘴边或者表露出来,不过他绝对是一个好父亲。妈妈常常安排我们一家大小出游,他也从无怨言的载进载出,所以我的童年是快乐和充满回忆的。

在我的印象中,他是一个孝顺,有责任的人。他是长子,对下有六弟二妹;他只有小学程度,小学毕业后就开始工作了。他很少提起小时候的事,我都是从妈妈和姑姑那里听回来的。他曾在杂货点做过数,过后就帮公公做泥水,直到现在做装修 。(还没退休)

我长这么大(30岁), 只见过他哭过四次。。
- 第一次和第二次 = 公公和婆婆去世
- 第三次 = 妈妈去世
- 第四次 = 我出嫁那天

我永远都不会忘记,妈妈去世的第二天早上,我看见爸爸在公公和婆婆的神主牌前站着,对”他们“说为什么要那么快带走妈妈。。。说完后眼泪就流下了。。。

现在我已是两个孩子的妈妈,当然明白为人父母的感受。我现在很enjoy看我爸和他的孙女们玩的样子,所以我常常回娘家,把孩子们”丢“给老爸看顾,而我就在一旁”观看“, 哈哈。。

我好想对爸爸说:”我爱你,爸!" (我会努力生个男孙给你玩)

Thank You, Indhu


Why i must THANKS her ???

I like to think and write since primary school,
HOWEVER, I have been stop it since after married, I so busy for company works (inclusive house works) and babies, really long long time did not write up any article about what I think.

On June 17, 2009, after have lunch with Indhu, on our way back to office, I share with her that my assistant Ashley got her own blog already, I hope I can have one also to write somethings.

She told me and support me to GO ON, don't simply give up!!

Dear Indhu, today I got MOOD, TIME and CHANCE to created my own blog, so you must be the first one to thanks.

Once again, THANK YOU,Indhu!!