There is somethings about "Orang Baik" & "Advices"

Before Married. I think:
Family is "Husband + Wife + Kids"

After Married, I think:
Family is " Husband + Wife + Kids + Orang Baik"

Who are "Orang Baik"??

Orang Baik are the people will give you "advices", "always beside you" and "closed to you".

you will noticed that family matters are not just between you and your husband / wife, it will involve "Orang Baik" even though just a little small matter.

Case 1: Cook Dinner
If you ask 'them' what should cook, their answer = "chin chai la", "cook what ever you cook, we don't have problem on it", "we ok for anythings".

But.. when you turn back to kitchen, the "representative" will come to kitchen and "advice" you what you should cook.

Case 2: Trips / Shopping
If you go for Trips or shopping without inform 'them', they will ask you "why you didn't ask me to go?" or "why you didn't invite me to join?".

But.. when they out for trips or shopping, they will not think about you, they will plan and go, you will not in their list, some more you will be the one to "Jaga Rumah".

Case 3: Buy outside foods
If you buy foods from outside, they will ask "xxx (my name), you buy xxx (food's name)?". Of course that my answer is "Yes". Then.. "they" will ask "why you didn't call me to eat"?

If you buy foods when 'they" are away, they will complain behind of you.. "why xxx don't buy the foods when I am around, why choose the date that I am not arond"..

Case 4: House Renovation
If you buy house, don't think of you able to "decide" what ever you like to renovation.

A lot of "advices" will come out, like: "You should..", "You better...", "Why don't you..", "How about.."

Case 5: Fighting
If possible, better don't fight infron of "Orang Baik".

They will present "Worry" and "Sad" in front of you..

At the back, they will said "Seperate is the better way to avoid fight"..

Don't think that "Orang Baik" will talk "straight" to you; they like to make "U-Turn" or "Round About" or "Highway".

If you ask them "straight" for somethings, they will said "I don't know about that..", "Not sure..", "Don't ask me, I don't know..", "Not my business..", "Dont' ask me..".

That is called "Don't take the shit to put on your body". But, they like to "Put shit on others people's body".. Funny!!

I herewith thanks for their "Advice", "Care" and "Concern"

It make me become "Strong" for "In" and "Out" side, and make me "Open my eyes and mind".

"Arigato Gozaimas"!!!